(sorry this update is rather long and detailed but i write it as my journal entry in addition to an update)
HI all,
i hope everyone is doing well in spirit and health.
i'm doing well - at peace. :)
THANKS for covering me in prayer and love during my time in northern california and basically thus far in this journey.
wanted to bring ya'll up to speed in a little more detail.
__radiation completed (8/12/2010)__ bum and leg got toasted (literally...)
__broken femur (10/20/2010)__ so, i was hanging out with julia in new york and on the morning that i was supposed to fly back to cali, i slipped in the shower while reaching for a towel and broke my right femur (see attachment). it's a non-displaced fracture meaning it didn't drastically break in two pieces but it was a bit more than a hairline crack.
i didn't think it was broken so i borrowed a cane from julia's bro-in-law and got wheel-chaired to and from the airport gates. made it back to cali and that night, went to the ER to get my leg diagnosed cuz it hurt BAD (wasn't so bad when i wasn't moving it tho). didn't need a cast so i'm thankful for that.
only within the past couple weeks or so have i been able to get around by walking (without a cane) and even driving. yay freedom! :)
__pet ct scan (11/19/2010)__ got the full body scan done and the results came up positive meaning that there were areas of concern in my right leg and pelvic area (see attached). instead of a single big tumor, there were what seemed to be several small tumor sites.
__biopsy (12/6/2010)__ my oncologist ordered a biopsy to be done in an area where one of the small sites was. the pathologist diagnosed the tumor as the same cancer that was in my left and right legs - soft-tissue sarcoma (myofibroblastic cells).
the docs suspect that instead of a recurrence of cancer, the tumor sites are residual tumors- meaning that the 2nd surgery and radiation in my right leg didn't take care of all the cancer (to the surprise of the docs because my treatment was assumed to have zapped the cancer away).
my radiation oncologist says that giving me more radiation in my leg/pelvic area would not be recommended because the tissue in the area has already been fried too much and it wouldn't be wise to fry it some more.
my chemo oncologist says that there isn't any known chemo treatment that effectively kills my particular cancer so if the surgeon recommends it, my oncologist would give me a "general" chemo treatment. :O
the docs then started the process of getting me to see an orthopedic oncologist surgeon (in the orange county area).
__redding, ca (1/6-11/2011)__
the reason why i decided to go to redding was for the following two reasons:
1) to commune with God (through worship and prayer and being 'still' in His presence)
2) to see if God would heal me before a 3rd possible round of surgery
so, i walk into the healing room and i see a lot of people- some holding their lively instruments on stage, some dancers who were worshipping with their graceful movements near the center, some volunteers with name tags praying for people all around, and some even painting on canvas (in worship) near the middle, and a lot of people who were sick in some form or another all dispersed throughout the room- some sitting, some standing, and some even dancing.
the longer i stayed (after an initial "adjustment"), the more i was at peace being in this "environment". i saw life and laughter and joy and peace, and, i rationalized (after much thought) that it's only the presence of the Holy Spirit that can bring about these attributes amidst all of this disease (spiritual, emotional, and physical).
so i sit down on a chair situated on the outskirts and i wait. after 10 or so minutes, a volunteer sees my sheet of paper (which has my name and ailment written on it) and proceeds to ask if i have been prayed for and if i wanted to be prayed over. nope and yes, please. :)
as she begins to pray over me, she sees a fire of healing go through my body. after the prayer, she asks if i felt anything. i think about it for a few seconds (with some self-assessment) and tell her kindly that i did not feel any different. she said some people might feel something and others may not and that healing could take some time (which i accepted). i cordially thanked her and sat back down.
a few minutes later, two other guys came up to me and asked if i had been prayed over and wanted to receive more prayer. yes and yes!
as one of the guys started praying over me, he asks me what i wanted prayer for. i think about it for several seconds and say, "well, my family and friends want me here for healing of my cancer, but.... if it were a choice, i would ask that you pray that i would have more intimacy with God".
this guy named "jacob" then walks me through some questions but he first asks me to close my eyes and imagine jesus:
(not verbatim but the gist is here:)
jacob: is jesus here?
dennis: yah
jacob: do you know that jesus will never leave you nor forsake you?
dennis: yah
jacob: do you know that jesus loves you?
dennis: yah
jacob: what does jesus look like?
dennis: i see him on the cross. he's all bloody and beaten and his face is all bloody... and he's wearing a crown of thorns.
jacob: what does jesus say to you?
dennis: (jesus looks right into my eyes and says) "This is how much i love you".
^^^
at this point, i'm crying because it's one thing to read about jesus' death for me but to hear it from him directly was a whole different personal experience.
jacob: (while i'm still crying), this is intimacy...
dennis: ... (crying; sucking up of snot; blowing of nose; sniffles)...
jacob: what does jesus say about the cancer in your body and healing for your leg?
dennis: jesus says, "It is finished!".
...
jacob: now i want you to imagine you sitting on jesus' lap.
jacob: what do you want to say to jesus?
dennis: "Daddy, it hurts!"
jacob: what does jesus say?
dennis: he says, "I know".
...
jacob: (jacob kneels down and then starts praying over my leg).
dennis: i now see myself (as a child) on a table and jesus (daddy) is tending my leg and healing it
dennis: i now see jesus carrying me in his arms
jacob: ok, what do you see next?
dennis: i see my daddy and i running together, hand-in-hand, just laughing and playing. there is so much joy.
dennis: i also see us at a playground and there's the same playful atmosphere and i'm with my daddy. we're so happy.
jacob: do you see anything else?
dennis: i'm now a teenager (or young-adult), and i see me and dad throwing the football around.
dennis: (at this point, i'm not crying any more, but am at peace)...
i received a third and final prayer by another couple of prayer volunteers. the results were pretty much the same as the first prayer in that there was a prayer of healing but i didn't feel anything (not to belittle it tho). :)
i walked out of the healing room with a "glow" if you want to call it. i was refreshed and at peace.
the message that God gave me was that i AM loved beyond measure and that the work to restore/redeem my broken/physically-diseased body was already done on the cross and payed for by his own blood (NOTE: i previously asked you to battle in prayer with me before going to redding but the realization was that jesus already won the battle over death and the victory is His alone).
up to that point, i always connected jesus' phrase, "it is finished", with the forgiveness of sins, absolution of guilt, and justification; however, i believe my paradigm has been shifting slightly in that this phrase is beginning to mean more than what i had previously thought - jesus' work on the cross fully reversed the curse of sin which includes the aforementioned but also includes the redemption of our bodies from disease and sickness and when jesus comes back, even death (
matthew 8:14-17,
isaiah 53:5,
romans 5:18). i'm starting to believe that jesus' blood restores us to what God originally planned from that which sin messed up.
do i believe that Holy Spirit physically healed me of my cancer?
yes. jesus' response, "it is finished", was a direct answer to the question of what jesus says about my cancer (
isaiah 55:11). i believe in the power of jesus' blood and the authority inherent to it because if i believe without a doubt that God forgives my sins, anything, including healing of cancer, is possible with God (
mark 2:1-12,
mark 9:17-26).
do i realllllly believe the Holy Spirit healed me of my cancer? to be honest, for the past few weeks, it has been a constant jumping back and forth from doubt and belief. however, there came a point (more recently) where i had to just take that step of faith and believe it with all my heart (
hebrews 11:1). so, yes, i believe that he has healed me. whenever doubt creeps in, i have to remind myself of His direct word for me and about His character and about the authority in jesus' blood over death/disease/satan and His great love for me.
do i understand why there still is suffering in the world? regrettably, i don't. i don't know why things happen the way they do to christian and non-christian alike.
these are just the lessons that i believe God is teaching me and i would encourage you all to test the scriptures yourselves to discern if what i am saying is the truth.
however, in the meantime, i will continue to pray for God's kingdom to come on earth and do what i can through the power and authority of the Holy Spirit to usher glimpses of it in (
ephesians 6:10-18).
i expect to receive some flak for my beliefs (from christian and non-christian) but i will keep my eyes on jesus and move forward in faith.
* for those of you who made it all the way to this point with me, i'll now talk about the real meat- unfortunately (for you) i just realized this as i was reviewing my novel-length email (but i'm not going to shorten any of the previous parts cuz they're still important to me). i have to say that the greatest take away for me (that i believe i will never forget and ironically how i only gave a cursory mention towards...) during this whole cancer journey was concretely knowing how much my savior loves me- this he proved on calvary (a friend of mine warmly suggested that God had connected this thought from my mind to my heart).
i listened to a couple of sermons recently and both of them talked about missionaries who were faced with imminent death (of those who survived). in the moment right before death (or of deepest anguish), they all recount of the sweetest peace that they had with jesus (
john piper on john g. paton,
francis chan- suffering). i believe i have tasted this sweetness and i wouldn't trade
anything for it, not even a healthy body. it is priceless- knowing the love of a savior and having a personal relationship with him.
a healthy body (and anything else really) is secondary to the knowledge of my savior's love.
back to the logistical (boring) stuff:
__MRI & UCI (1/25/2011 and 1/31/2011) __ i have some MRIs (for my right leg and pelvic area) scheduled tomorrow morning to confirm that i have been healed. i should get the report the end of this week.
i also have an appointment with a
Dr. Bang Hoang, an orthopedic oncologist surgeon at UCI, next monday for an initial consultation to go over my case and probably go over the MRI results.
just as an assurance for ya'll- i am currently NOT in any physical pain. my leg is pretty stiff from the broken femur and 2nd surgery but feeling relatively "normal" aside from the stiffness.
__prayer requests __
- that we all experience greater intimacy with our heavenly father, our savior, and the holy spirit
- that God will reveal His glory in ways that we have never seen but only heard of
faith.hope.love
dennis :)